A Sexual Massage... in the Bathtub

One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really giver her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other 'extra treats' as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a 'Proper' Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you're going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the... scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you're using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don't use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what's mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you're going to burn scented oils.

Also, don't scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it's not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It's not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it's not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don't forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don't join her in the bath just yet.
Start sexually massaging her while you're still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part... massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or 'clean' her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here's a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try 'shampooing' her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her 'sweet spot'. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply 'connect' with that special place as well. Good luck!

About The Author-- Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com

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