Get into Your Partner's Fantasy Life

You may be surprised to find out that inside the mind of your significant other are plenty of steamy sex fantasies she's probably never told you about but that's she's secretly dying to get a chance to act out. Can you imagine the night of wild sex the two of you could have after acting out just one of these fantasies? You'd both end up experiencing a night you'd never forget!

But how do you get her to open up about her fantasies? That's the tricky part because women don't want to give away too much of her secret, sexual selves because we're afraid of being condemned by the men in our lives. We don't want them to think our fantasies are weird or that we're slutty or anything like that.

You can try sharing your sexual fantasies with her and seeing if she's willing to open about hers, but if that doesn't work you can share some possibilities and see which ones get the biggest reaction from her. She doesn't have to say it's her fantasy but she can give the two of you permission to try it.

Here are some ideas:

The Groupie & the Guitarist

Lots of women spent their teenage years fantasizing about the guys of their favorite band. They'd see this hot guy on stage playing music they loved and feeling as if he was doing all of that just for her. And she'd wish she could get backstage just to show him how much she loved his music.

The good news for you is that in this fantasy you're going to be that hot musician and she's going to be the willing groupie who's ready to do just about anything you ask, especially performing oral sex. Make sure to dress in your most impressive rock star attire and have the music for the band she used to fantasize about playing in the background to create the right vibe in the bedroom.

The Stranger

Sure women want to have sex with guys they love and care about, but that doesn't mean we don't fantasize about meeting a stranger and going home with me to experience a night of incredible, nameless, and no-strings attached fun. The problem is many women would have a hard time making this one happy for real.

So you can make it happen instead. Go separately to a bar. Both of you dance and mingle with other people for a little while before meeting for the first time. After a little flirting and suggestive behavior, the two of you can head right outside to the car and have a good time right there in the parking lot or lock yourselves in the bar's restroom for a little fun. It feels dangerous and that makes the whole thing even hotter.

Being Aroused by Authority Figures

There's a good chance you've woman has had more than an innocent crush on at least one authority figure in her life. It might have been a teacher, a police officer, a fireman, even a politician, but the important thing she was turned on by his position of power over her. If you can find out who she couldn't think of without envisioning a steamy encounter, then you'll know exactly how to make this fantasy work.

Let's say her fantasy involves a teacher. You can be the teacher who makes her stay after not to punish her but to give her your own special reward for being such a good student. If you have a desk that could be used a prop in your fun then that's even better. After all, if you bend her over most desks she'll be in just the right position for whatever reward you have in mind.

Other women fantasize about getting it on with a police officer. You can act this one out, too, even if you don't have access to a uniform. Make sure to frisk her slowly and rub your hands up and down her entire body, as well as between her thighs and over her breasts. If you happen to have a set of handcuffs (and a key) then they can be excellent props, too.

Try suggesting one of these sexy fantasies to your significant other and see what she says. If she's up for it, then have a good time and reap the benefits of an incredible night of ecstasy neither of you will soon forget.

About The Author-- Gabrielle Moore is co-author of the e-course The G Spot Code. A course to help couples find the G Spot. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com or http://www.thegspotcode.com

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