Sexual Massage for Her Genitals

The intention of sexual massage is to relax the mind while provoking physical sexual tension. This is why it's very important to always maintain body contact with your loved one when giving a sexual massage.

For instance, if you're massaging her back and you want her to turn over, don't break contact. Touch her shoulders and assist her while turning or make sure your legs are touching her arms or bare legs as she turns. In short, no matter what happens, once you start the sexual massage, ALWAYS keep in touch (literally) with her body.

Now, a sexual massage is not just focusing on her erotic zones but her whole body. But of course, the highlight of the event is the massage you will be doing on her genitals.

How to Sexually Massage Her Belly

Remember that your partner should be in a relaxed state at all times so don't just 'dive in' and massage her groin, and take her completely by surprise. Besides, doing it slowly builds up the sexual tension even better!

Begin the massage by focusing on her belly. If your lady love is ticklish, you can still accomplish this massage by applying slower and firmer massage strokes. (By the way, massaging the belly helps in digestive processes.)

Use the fingers of your one hand and make small circles on her belly. Don't be 'aimless' here. Always massage in a clockwise direction. You can then use your palm to massage the belly, making larger circles around the outer rim of her belly.

Now use both of your hands and massage each side of her belly. Start by making small circles and continue to make larger ones that reach her outer belly.

Just remember NOT to knead her belly (like dough). Stomach muscles are very sensitive so if you're rough, her stomach may get sore!

Naughty tip: When you massage your partner, sit facing her and straddle her legs. This way, your erect penis will be slightly grazing her soft thighs or even slightly poking her vagina.

How to Sexually Massage Her Genitals

The following sexual massage technique is based on the techniques by one of my favorite massage gurus, Ray Stubbs.

Start by massaging the inside of her thighs. It's ok to 'knead' her thighs a bit but don't be rough. Interchange the pressure from stroking to kneading.

Now slowly let your hand go and graze her pubic hair. Don't tickle her. You want her to relax so instead of just stroking her pubic hair, tug on it a little bit. Now, palm her groin. Try to cover her vagina completely with your hand and let your palm rest there for a few seconds. The warmth of your palm will soon envelop her vagina.

Wibble It
With your hand still cupping her, ask your partner to spread her legs wider. Kneel in front of her. Now with both hands, touch her outer labia. Pull on it a little but and then let go (as you would do with your bottom lip). Do this on the other side of her outer labia. Give each side about eight pull and releases each.

Clit Massage
Now, you're ready to progress. Using your finger (make sure it's lubricated!), touch the tip of her clitoris with an almost featherlight touch. (In fact, if you want, use a feather for this step.) Now, run your finger around the head and then up and down the shaft of her clitoris.

If she has her eyes closed, let her be. But if she has her eyes open, maintain eye contact with her as you massage her clit.

The Power of Tongue
At this stage, your partner is already probably glisteningly wet and well, quite horny I imagine so don't disappoint. Put your head down between her legs and lap up her juices. Your intention is not to make her come but to continue your sexual massage so lick her gently.

And just when she thinks you're just 'massaging' her, up the tempo and bring her to her climax. What you can also do is stop licking her, and proceed to pleasure her with your finger inside her. If you know how to give a G-spot orgasm, all the better. But if not, that's ok too.

Always remember to take your cues from your partner especially if this is the first time you're giving her a sexual massage as she may not be that comfortable yet. Earn her trust first before you get excited and carried away with your sexual massage moves.

Sexual massages are very personal massages so be sure she's always ok and comfortable with what you have in mind.

About The Author-- Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The Female Ejaculation Mastery. It is a step-by-step guide to teach men about female ejaculation. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/female-ejaculation.html

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